Favourite Reads of 2020

4 January 2021

Once again, an episode of what I read during the year. Dan also wrote a couple blog posts on what he read (many of which he passed on to me to read); read his summaries here and here

We are studying Canadian history this year for school. In advance, I began picking up books on Canadian history and caught a bug. There are some treasures out there. I'll begin with them.

Shadows on the Rock
by Willa Cather

My father-in-law rescued a ton of old books a while back. I picked up Shadows on the Rock from this collection, remembering a brief mention from a friend. Set in Quebec during the late years of Samuel de Champlain and St Francois de Laval, the non-Catholic Cather captures poignantly the Catholic culture of the early settlement. Passages will stay with me forever, especially ones highlighting the saintly Laval and his devotion to his flock. 
 


Maria Chapdelaine 
by Louis Hemon

I read Maria Chapdelaine as an assignment for a course in Canadian Literature during my first year of university. As it was out-of-print at the time, the version we read had difficult typos. I'll chalk it up to that instead of my youthful lack of depth, but I didn't enjoy it half as much as it deserves. This is a treasure of Canadian beauty: life in the backwoods of Quebec, Catholic culture, and simple, youthful romance. 



Madeleine Takes Command
by Ethel C. Brill

Another Canadian history pick. One snowy weekend in November, we house sat for my in-laws and I read Madeleine Takes Command to the kids. We were all spellbound. I'd read it at least a couple times before, but it never gets old. The true story of Madeleine de Vercheres: with her two young brothers and a few soldiers, she commanded the defense of her family fortress on the banks of the St Lawrence in a week-long Iroquois attack. It is a gripping tale and one we'll never forget. 


Divine Intimacy 
by Fr Gabriel of St Mary Magdalen

Divine Intimacy was my daily spiritual reading throughout the year. I came to realize it was a necessity for my spiritual life - especially, dare I say - in 2020. Beginning with basics and tying everything in to the traditional liturgical year, Fr Gabriel brings the soul from the beginning of the spiritual life to the heights - that is the hope, anyway. When I began the cycle at the beginning of Advent again, I felt like I was back in familiar territory, right at the beginning of the spiritual life. 



Reclaiming our Roman Catholic Birthright: The Genius & Tradition of the Traditional Latin Mass
by Peter Kwasniewski

I'll admit, I haven't read Reclaiming from front to back. I read the sections on children at Mass. Kwasniewski gets it. He understands as a parent our difficulties in bringing children to Mass, especially of late. He provides practical advice and deep insight all in one. 




Christus Vincit: Christ's Triumph Over the Darkness of the Age
by Bishop Athanasius Schneider with Diane Montagna

Again, I didn't read Christus Vincit in its entirety. But I read Bishop Schneider's memories of his life under Communism as a young boy and his family's escape into "free" Germany. I read his take on the darkness of the age, especially in our beloved Catholic Church. His insights are prophetic and have the ring of truth. We are living in troubled times and we must hold fast to the truths of our faith, passed down through the ages. 


Fahrenheit 451
by Ray Bradbury

I'm a bit of a copycat when it comes to book reading. Many of my titles are books Dan passes on. This is one of them. What happens when you burn all the books? What does a socially engineered society without books look like? I read this book in early 2020. It's scary when I look at the world around me now and realize the stark truth of a society that is so out-of-touch with reality, clear thinking and reasoning, and simple living. 



Family Be Damned
by Kennedy Hall

Kennedy Hall is a Catholic writer and podcaster living in Ontario. Imitating C.S. Lewis' Screwtape Letters, Hall taps into a devil's temptations of a modern family during Covid lockdown. This is not Screwtape Letters. But it is very entertaining, thought-provoking, and chilling. Hall brings the story to the depths of (believable) spiritual despair and ends with a hope we can all use. We bought the Kindle edition; well worth it!


The Story of the Trapp Family Singers
by Maria Augusta Trapp

"How do you solve a problem like Maria?" Have you ever wondered whether Maria von Trapp really did cause such disarray in the convent as they sing? Spoiler: Yes. Sort of. One of my favourite films from my childhood (really, I'm sure we girls watched this 30+ times - sorry, Grandpa), The Sound of Music is really, the real life story. But this is so much better. Their beautiful and unconventional romance, their family escape from Nazis-invaded Austria, their poverty and first successes and failures in America, their family traditions and, above all, their unwavering faith - the Trapp family is a delightful read. 

Around the Year with the Von Trapp Family
by Maria Augusta von Trapp

The reason I read Story of the Trapp Family was because a Protestant friend saw this book on my piano and told me I had to read the original story. Around the Year is Maria recounting the their family traditions following the traditional Catholic calendar, ones they observed in Austria and brought with them to America. It is beautifully full of memories, meditations, recipes, songs, and advice. I refer to it often and keep it handy. 
We and Our Children: How to Make a Catholic Home
by Mary Reed Newland

Instagram, Facebook, and Etsy are full of Catholic wives and mothers' beautiful incorporation of our Catholic faith into all aspects of life. Newland is one of the original, if you will, Catholic mom bloggers. Newland deals with discipline, sacraments, morality, liturgical living, and much more in a simple and straightforward manner. I especially referred to her when teaching for sacramental prep this year and studying the Mass with my kids. I keep this book handy and refer to it often.


Defending Boyhood
by Anthony Esolen

I finally read an Esolen book. Dan might ask: Have you even lived until you read Esolen? Defending Boyhood lived up to everything I've ever heard and read about Esolen (and the snippets I'd already read). Esolen is deep and witty, a profound writer and filled with literary references. Here he taps into the essence of boys and, well, defends them as God made them; he instructs the ignorant on the proper care for a boys' true nature. 



By What Authority
by Robert Hugh Benson

My favourite read of the year! Benson is incredible. A master storyteller, a deep spiritual thinker, and an avid historian. It helps that my favourite genre of literature is historical fiction, but marry that with spiritual depth and what a winner! The novel is set in the Elizabethan reign of terror. Catholics risked their lives and all earthly possessions to profess their faith, even secretly. And yet, the martyrs abound. Benson gets to the heart of the ordinary man and woman. We might think of them as glorious and strong, but he reveals their hidden fears, sorrows, and temptations. 

3 January 2021

 Millette Christmas Letter – 2020

“2020 was a great year!”  - signed, Satan.

I must refrain from complaining. That’s not the purpose of a Christmas letter. Nevertheless, one thing that cannot be masked is the fact that the world lost its mind in 2020. No need for details.

How are the kids handling the coronavirus pandemic, you might ask? I feel like the appropriate answer is to say that it’s been very difficult, challenging, heartbreaking - they cry randomly (true), and awake at night in sweat and terror… But then the other day John Paul and Emilie were parading around the house while chanting: “We have corona! We have corona!” The chant then escalated to: “We love corona! We love corona!” Too far?

Kids. They just don’t get it. Don’t they know they’re supposed to live in fear? Fear of a virus. Fear of getting caught not “social distancing”. Fear of running out of toilet paper. Fear of getting grandma sick. Fear of an unmasked person. Fear of celebrating Christ’s birth.

No, they don’t get it. God bless them. We have much to learn. And may God bless us, everyone.

 Year in Review

Jan. 31 – After a glorious 7 months away from teaching, Dan’s parental leave ends. He is then forced to teach for 6 whole weeks before being sent home to isolate from society.

Apr. 10 – Ten years of marital bliss are celebrated! Fittingly, it is a day filled with fasting, prayer, and penance. On another note, it also happens to be Good Friday.

June 12 – Joseph is Confirmed and receives his First Holy Communion, at the hands of his uncle, Fr. Darryl. On a more exciting note, he gets a long-coveted Bass Pro Shops hat as a gift.

June 30 – Dan walks upstairs from his basement work-office and declares that it is now summer vacation. The kids adjust well to having their dad home for the summer.

August 15 – While sitting on the couch eating sandwiches, we watch a live-streamed wedding Mass as Becca’s youngest brother Ben gets married to Abby in Barry’s Bay, Ontario.

Sept. 5 – In person (Saskatoon, SK) we witness the marriage of Dan’s brother Stephen to Emma. Dan then gets to be emcee at the reception, proving that there always was something funny about him.

Sept. 19 – Oh for heaven’s sake! Another wedding... This time it’s Becca’s brother Blaise getting married to Maria in Ottawa, Ontario. A video clip is sent to us proving that this wedding happened.

Nov. 7-9 – We get walloped with 2 feet of snow. That’s about the most exciting thing to happen this fall.

Kid Quotes:

Joseph takes an empty pantyhose box out of the garbage and uses it to store Lego.

Mom: “Joseph! You need to stop taking things out of the garbage!”

Joseph: “Well you need to stop putting things in the garbage!”

Emilie: “Geniuses are boys.”

Dad: “Not always. Maybe you’ll be a genius some day!”

Emilie: *Pause* I think there’s a booger on my nose…”

Dad: “Have you ever seen Bigfoot?”

Emilie: “I’ve seen Grandpa’s big foot!”

Dad: “What do you want for a snack?”

Emilie (super tired): “Can I have some cup in a milk?”

John Paul: “Guess what’s under my gitch!?”

Mom: “!?! Uhh…”

John Paul: Money! Under my gitch in my drawer!”

Dad: “Oh no! There’s no Easter hunt. The Easter bunny is dead!”

Joseph: “Well, maybe the he’ll rise from the dead at Easter.”

Dad, joking on a snowy Palm Sunday: “Merry Christmas!”

Emilie: “No! Merry Lent!”

Emilie, looking at mom’s hair bun: “It’s a good thing you have a pom pom in your hair, because it’s Palm Sunday!”

 Question: How many kids do you have again? Answer: Last I checked, 4

Joseph (9) – Grade 4. Loves woodworking, being in charge, music, and sports.

John Paul (6) – Grade 1. Learned to read. Loves drawing, running, and trying to beat Joseph at whatever he does.

Emilie (4) – Pre-homeschool. Loves cooking, colouring, and giving people imaginary names.

Jude (1) – Loves eating food, eating books, and playing sports. He started walking before he was 1. He just got up one day, grabbed a hockey stick and started hitting a ball.

The Finale: Back in January Becca said to me, “I think the word ‘peace’ will be our theme throughout this year.” How did that work for you, Dear? It worked great, actually. Because it forced us to learn what true peace is, and isn’t.

With that, we wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and a parting word:

“Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not be afraid” (John 14:27).